Online Discernment/Divorce Counseling for Couples in Washington State

A time-bound approach for couples seriously weighing a breakup to gain clarity on their next steps.

  • Discernment/Divorce Counseling is for couples contemplating splitting up. Either one or both of you has decided the relationship is no longer working. You want to make one last ditch-attempt to see if the problems are fixable or if you should simply cut your losses.

  • Discernment/Divorce Counseling involves deep inquiry to gain clarity on one of three possible next steps:

    1. Stay together and make no changes (almost no one chooses this);

    2. Proceed straight to breaking up; or

    3. Commit to six months of deep couples counseling work with an excellent couples therapist, and make a decision when those six months are behind you.

  • This work is time-bound to five sessions. You commit to only one session at a time—no more.